don't be afraid to discipline and mean it. children (infant to teen) need boundaries/limits. don't be afraid to set them. don't negotiate with children too small to understand. don't give in to temper tantrums.

compliment accomplishments (don't overly reward), set the bar higher each time your child meets your expectations.

love them unconditionally, but let disapproval of certain behavious be known as well and punish appropriately.

advocate for your child in school. get to know teachers, counseslors and principals. expect your child's best performance always.

build their self-confidence, self-esteem/self-worth. don't give them empty praise and empty compliments.

teach them how to handle adversity.

teach them a work ethic. make them work for things they want….assign them household chores and expect them to complete them to the best of their ability.

teach them to respect others. to get respect one must give it first.

be a role model; be the one to emulate. athletes and entertainers are not always good role models.

this could go on forever……………